Comments for Confessions of teh Purpleist http://purpleist.wordpress.com An account of a twenty-something finding his way out Fri, 04 Jul 2008 19:37:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=MU Comment on My first (real) time by keltic http://purpleist.wordpress.com/2007/10/11/my-first-real-time/#comment-4 keltic Mon, 15 Oct 2007 20:09:22 +0000 http://purpleist.wordpress.com/2007/10/11/my-first-real-time/#comment-4 I have several thoughts about your experience here. One is that perhaps Trent felt as awkward as you did. Maybe both of you are exploring something new, and while the good-bye was strange and you feel that you learned nothing about yourself, I'd be careful where you assign the blame for that. There were 2 people there.... sex without love, or sex without friendship, or sex without mutual admiration, is very often flat, cold and unfeeling. You didn't have a chance to explore your attraction to him, or to any man really. I remember some of my early explorations. The sex was ok, but when I fell in love with a man, that's when I knew that I was gay. this one person was everything I wanted in a man, in a partner, and in a relationship. plus, the sex is great ;-) I have several thoughts about your experience here. One is that perhaps Trent felt as awkward as you did. Maybe both of you are exploring something new, and while the good-bye was strange and you feel that you learned nothing about yourself, I’d be careful where you assign the blame for that. There were 2 people there….
sex without love, or sex without friendship, or sex without mutual admiration, is very often flat, cold and unfeeling. You didn’t have a chance to explore your attraction to him, or to any man really. I remember some of my early explorations. The sex was ok, but when I fell in love with a man, that’s when I knew that I was gay. this one person was everything I wanted in a man, in a partner, and in a relationship. plus, the sex is great ;-)

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]]> Comment on So here’s the deal… by maybebi http://purpleist.wordpress.com/2007/10/10/so-heres-the-deal/#comment-2 maybebi Thu, 11 Oct 2007 01:57:48 +0000 http://purpleist.wordpress.com/2007/10/10/so-heres-the-deal/#comment-2 Hi there! Sounds like we're kind of dealing with a bit of the same stuff, definitely happy to find out there's another guy thinking out loud about his sexuality. :) Hi there! Sounds like we’re kind of dealing with a bit of the same stuff, definitely happy to find out there’s another guy thinking out loud about his sexuality. :)

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